Have you ever been told you’re too fat? Ugly? Too thin? You have love handles? You’re too masculine and many more? If so then I’m here to tell you that it’s a load of bull crap! Providing you aren’t unhealthily over or under weight, you can be whatever and whoever the f*ck you want to be. PERFECTION is to the individual, It’s an opinion, not a set in stone singular object or definition. The only comparison you should be making is to yourself, to become a better version of you or a healthier version of you. Trying to compare your progress and status of “Perfection” to someone elses is toxic, dangerous and just damn right not fair on that wonderful brain and body of yours. Be the Queen or king of your own temple and life. F*cking rock it!
Up until last year I was convinced I had no fashion sense and that I was always the once mismatching clothes and having a style no one would ever look up (or down..because I’m small) to. I’ve always been the less attractive, small, quirky and geeky girl. My friends were always doing these beautiful makeup looks and they seemed to look incredible in anything they chose to wear. Last year I started thinking less about pleasing others and just wearing what I like, when I like, how I like; What a wonderful revelation this was! Here’s some words people said about me: “One of the best dressed people I know”, “Unique Sense of Fashion and style”, “Always standing out”, “Quirky and elegant”. Hearing these things was so shocking since It was when I’d finally stopped pressurising myself to fit in and adhere to trends. Make your own kind of style.